Don’t Give Up on Your Dreams...
Listen to any
child under the age of ten and you’ll hear the unbridled imagination of their
dreams expressed in virtually every word and action. No dream is too big. No obstacles exist. Anything is achievable.
They’re living proof that we’re naturally programmed to dream, to create, and
to become.
As adults, we encourage
our children to dream, knowing all too well that reality will one day present
itself, along with its close allies; obstacles, negativity, and discouragement.
Soon, we convince our children that they must accept reality because, after
all, resistance is futile.
Since when did
such advice become commonplace among the wiser, more experienced counsel of our
adult population? Instead of explaining reality
to our children, perhaps they would be better served by an explanation that
dreams require determination, passion, action, consistency, commitment and
follow-through. Could it be that our adult population has succumbed to an
acceptance of a reality of their own they know all too well? Don’t be that
adult!
Far too many adults
have accepted a pre-defined concept of reality they inevitably (and
unwittingly) pass along to our young dreamers - all in a genuine attempt to
“help” them avoid the perils of disappointment, discouragement, and despair. They
shudder at the very thought of a young dreamer running the risk of failure. Unfortunately,
the well-intentioned assistance does little to foster imagination, the values
of risk, personal enrichment, and abundance.
Imagine the
staggering societal change if we were to provide encouragement, education, and
empowerment as the forces of reality begin to reveal themselves in the lives of
our young dreamers. I believe we’d see a transformative change take place that
would not only affect their young
lives, but ours as well.
What
about you? Have you given in to the intimidation of reality or do your dreams
and aspirations still have life? Know this – reality is what you make it. Sure,
there will be obstacles, setbacks, and circumstances. But obstacles can be
circumnavigated, setbacks can be overcome, and circumstances are never
stagnant.
It’s amazing how
many people are wrapped up in the reality (and drama) proliferating our society
through virtually every conceivable medium – especially TV. Most people can
tell you more about the sordid details of someone else’s reality than they can
about their own. Instead of watching the (perceived) reality of someone else,
why not use that precious time to create your own reality? Because, as mentioned
earlier, reality is what you make it.
Truth is – and this
will not be sugar-coated – the only thing standing between you and the realization
of your dreams is YOU! You have the power to take a stand and make a choice to change the
course of your life - to pick up a new direction that takes you toward your
dreams and aspirations. It’s never
too late.
Look, it’s a new
year. Why not make a new declaration
that supports the fulfillment of your dreams? By the way, don’t call it a “resolution.”
The term is worn out and has become synonymous with an expectation of failure
instead of victory. A declaration, on
the other hand, sends a message! It sends a message, not only to the world, but
to YOU as well. A declaration calls forth a state of being, as if it has
already happened. Here’s a secret – your
subconscious doesn’t know the difference. So, begin to see yourself as already
having achieved your dreams. At the very least, convince yourself that you
deserve the reality of your dreams. Some amazing things will begin to take
shape in your life. One of the first things you’ll notice is a renewed sense of expectation and unexplained excitement. Be quick to
capitalize on your excitement because it’s the very essence of what will drive
you to your dreams and aspirations. Your enthusiasm will begin to reveal things
to you that you may have otherwise missed altogether. This is the rebirth of
your dreams! Grab it and don’t let anyone or anything ever stand in the way.
Don’t ever give
up on your dreams.
Until next time!
- G -
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Gary,
ReplyDeleteAs usual - great writing and timely topic. I do need a little help, however. How do we adults have optimism when we have a wanna-be-dictator in the White House? I want to be positive - it's getting hard. And, now, Boehner is his prison bitch.
S/F, Rod
PS I don't know what the profiles are for, so I picked Anonymous.
Rod,
ReplyDeleteThanks for the feedback.
As I mention in the article, "circumstances are never stagnant." This simply means that "things change." They always change. Whether they change for the better or how they change is ultimately up to us to determine. Currently, there are not enough people who desire a leadership change in our country. I truly believe we will see this tide shift as our country and its policies drift away from the ideals we have historically embodied and valued. Americans have a high pain tolerance. But once that tolerance limit is tested, I'm confident we will act collectively to produce yet another change.
G